Sex, or for Many, “Making Love”
Forty years ago, Rick Berlin, who wasn’t secretive about his homosexuality, said to me about sex: I’d much rather be in love in my mind than doing what straights envision as the classic homo act.
I had a great psychiatrist for 20 years from 1979 to 1999, Dr. Jasna Kuftinec. In June of 1979, I went to Memorial Hospital in Nashua, NH from cocaine burnout. I took some mushrooms for my first time, and my parents drove me to the hospital. Jasna told me after I reached out to kiss her at our first meeting that she had never seen anybody so high.
In later years, in a session she told me that the average person thinks 60% of the time about negative things. The planes assure me it’s true. I try to keep it down to 20% for myself.
Troubled about my ED from lithium carbonate, she sent me to a therapist, a Dr. Small. He told me to use my fingers to pleasure my lovers, and maybe I’d get on to a better medication later in life. My macho exterior was insulted. I thought it was lame advice. Now, I think gentle use of the fingers, including penetration at times, is a great variation from the norm.
I had a great psychiatrist for 20 years from 1979 to 1999, Dr. Jasna Kuftinec. In June of 1979, I went to Memorial Hospital in Nashua, NH from cocaine burnout. I took some mushrooms for my first time, and my parents drove me to the hospital. Jasna told me after I reached out to kiss her at our first meeting that she had never seen anybody so high.
In later years, in a session she told me that the average person thinks 60% of the time about negative things. The planes assure me it’s true. I try to keep it down to 20% for myself.
Troubled about my ED from lithium carbonate, she sent me to a therapist, a Dr. Small. He told me to use my fingers to pleasure my lovers, and maybe I’d get on to a better medication later in life. My macho exterior was insulted. I thought it was lame advice. Now, I think gentle use of the fingers, including penetration at times, is a great variation from the norm.