David F. Jasper
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  • About David
  • Editorials:
    • Editorial: Minimum Wage
    • Editorial: North Korea
    • Editorial: Random Thoughts
    • Editorial: Thoughts on Absolution
    • Editorial: What the 21st Century Pope is Thinking
    • Editorial: Bill Weld
    • Editorial: Editorial: Who was Responsible for J.F.K.’s 1963 Dallas, Texas Assassination?
    • To the Editor: A Christmas Story
    • Republicans Fear Trump
    • ​Editorial: Disturbing Trend
    • Editorial: Abortion and The Supreme Court
    • It’s Time to Fry Putin and His Army of Thugs
    • PUTIN NEEDS A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE
  • Misc:
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    • Selling The Farm
    • Trump
    • Sex, or for many, "making love"
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    • Rick Berlin
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    • ​About Restaurants
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Sex, or for Many, “Making Love”

Forty years ago, Rick Berlin, who wasn’t secretive about his homosexuality, said to me about sex: I’d much rather be in love in my mind than doing what straights envision as the classic homo act.

I had a great psychiatrist for 20 years from 1979 to 1999, Dr. Jasna Kuftinec. In June of 1979, I went to Memorial Hospital in Nashua, NH from cocaine burnout. I took some mushrooms for my first time, and my parents drove me to the hospital. Jasna told me after I reached out to kiss her at our first meeting that she had never seen anybody so high.

In later years, in a session she told me that the average person thinks 60% of the time about negative things. The planes assure me it’s true. I try to keep it down to 20% for myself.

Troubled about my ED from lithium carbonate, she sent me to a therapist, a Dr. Small. He told me to use my fingers to pleasure my lovers, and maybe I’d get on to a better medication later in life. My macho exterior was insulted. I thought it was lame advice. Now, I think gentle use of the fingers, including penetration at times, is a great variation from the norm.
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  • About David
  • Editorials:
    • Editorial: Minimum Wage
    • Editorial: North Korea
    • Editorial: Random Thoughts
    • Editorial: Thoughts on Absolution
    • Editorial: What the 21st Century Pope is Thinking
    • Editorial: Bill Weld
    • Editorial: Editorial: Who was Responsible for J.F.K.’s 1963 Dallas, Texas Assassination?
    • To the Editor: A Christmas Story
    • Republicans Fear Trump
    • ​Editorial: Disturbing Trend
    • Editorial: Abortion and The Supreme Court
    • It’s Time to Fry Putin and His Army of Thugs
    • PUTIN NEEDS A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE
  • Misc:
    • Who Killed JFK?
    • Selling The Farm
    • Trump
    • Sex, or for many, "making love"
    • Mass Murderers
    • Jesus Christ
    • Marijuana
    • God
    • Rick Berlin
    • The Jasper Farm
    • Hollis, NH
    • ​About Restaurants
    • Closing Thoughts
  • Contact